Tuesday, March 3, 2015

Big Six!


The big brother turned the big six this year!  The night before his birthday he lost a tooth.  The upper front tooth to be exact.  He didn't so much lose it as he grabbed it and his elbow got knocked out, but either way it's a hell of a deal for the kid because it turns out the night before a birthday, the Tooth Fairy shells out the big dough.  $10 to be exact.

Carter invited six friends over to participate in a Jedi Training Camp.  All young Jedis reported for training camp and were given a robe, light saber, and task cards.  




Bradley constructed a black hold in the garage from 2x4s and black plastic, the kids popped StormTrooper balloons with light sabers, practiced their shooting skills with Nerf Guns, dodged lasers, and crossed hot lava to defeat Darth Vader.  We topped it all off with some pizza and cupcakes.  The highlight of the party was Auntie Raylene's Sumo Bumpers.  Next year we may have to hold a sumo wrestler training session.

In keeping in line with tradition, Carter answered his annual interview questions this evening.  Here goes.  

Name:  Carter Bradley Isbell
What is your favorite thing to do?  Build mini legos and play baseball.  
Who is your best friend?  Aidan Stewart
Favorite Color?  Red
Favorite Toy?  My BB gun
Favorite Food?  Corndogs
Favorite Drink?  Chocolate Milk
Perfect Day?  My birthday!
What do you want to be when you grow up?  Airplane Pilot and President
What will you miss about being five?  I will REALLY miss Kindergarten
What are you looking forward to about being six?  Doing more fun stuff like another year of T-ball with my brother, going to first grade
What are you really good at?  Building legos and playing baseball.
What are your chores?  I feed Rocky and the chickens when my dad needs my help.  I help my dad build projects.  I empty my green folder from my backpack and get my snack ready for the next day.  
Favorite thing to watch?  The new Lone Ranger, Indiana Jones, and MacGyver
What is your favorite thing about school?  Recess!  I like greeting everyone in the school with my mom.  
Anything you'd like to add about yourself?  I really like going to Disneyland and CarsLand.  

You've never met a more responsible, kind, smart, creative, and detail oriented kid.  We love you to the moon and back a bajillion times Carter.  

Monday, February 23, 2015

Love the Ones You're With

February was only 28 days long this month, but I swear we packed enough into those four weeks to fill a year.  A day short of Valentine's day Miles and I took off for a weekend in New Mexico with my college roomie and her triplets.  Carter was invited along but he has perfect attendance at school and didn't want to miss a day.  I left behind some V-day treats, ensured the frozen food supply, made sure our Amazon Prime credit card info was up to date, and left the boys to fend for themselves.


Miles and I spent a night in Medford, hopped up out of bed at 5am and jumped aboard two planes.  Greeting us in Albuquerque were Kendra and her three beautiful almost two year olds.  Miles was quite the travel companion and did really well all through our visit.  His worst moments came post gummy worms at a yogurt place, and I don't really think that counts.  I wish I was half the mom Kendra is.  Her patience, easygoing nature, and schedule make for parenting genius.  I got to see her husband Micah for a bit and we were both appreciative of the night on the town he provided us with.  It was genuinely heartwarming to watch our friendship pick up right where it left off.  You know you're pretty well off, when the toughest parts of your mini vacay are pushing triplets in one stroller at 6,000 feet on a run.  One hell of a workout.  We were mommy warriors.  We ran, went to the zoo, an aquarium, botanical garden, outdoor mall (with really bad drivers), an REI garage sale (save yourselves), and even out to brunch AT A RESTAURANT.  Olympic distance triathlons have nothing on that business.

Better than the trip itself was the time spent one on one with Miles.  That kid is an AMAZING traveler.  Not only did he get TWO sets of wings, but he never complained, didn't cry once, and enjoyed free rides on my rolling suitcase.

Valentine's Day was spent without my other two true loves, but I was able to love the ones I was with.  The day after we returned I took both boys on a run and bike ride.  Love this view.  .  .

Sunday, February 8, 2015

Love Grows

When Bradley and I got married I struggled with what to engrave on his wedding ring.  My mom helped me come up with the phrase "Love Grows".  Being 20 years old, I basically associated this term with his love of gardening.  Ten years later, it rings true a million fold.  Your love for your partner or your children grows.  In growth we can change, but in essence we grow.  When you get married, you can't imagine loving anyone more than your husband or wife, but then you have a child.  You can't imagine loving anything more, and then you have another child.

Sometimes I tell my boys and Bradley that I love them, but simply saying "I love you", doesn't seem to justify how truly deeply I care about them.  Our love pours over into our pets too.  Last weekend Maggie went to doggie heaven.  We got Maggie when Bradley and I had only been dating a couple of months.  She's seen us through many twists and turns of life and has always shown nothing but undeterred love.  Except when I went on a run and didn't take her.  Then she went to my nightstand, took my glasses, gobbled them up, and spit them into several pieces.  She was an excellent friend and companion to all of us and we truly miss her every day.


This week Carter received three awards at school (Citizen of the Month, 100 days of perfect attendance, and Scholastic Achievement) and was also a part of the homecoming royalty at the high school.  My love for this kid runs deep.  Pride and love.  He does the right thing time and time again.

Miles has felt a bit left out this week, and my love for him grows as I see more and more of his personality.  This week he stepped out of the car at the end of the driveway, took a deep breath, and said, "Mom, it smells like crap!".  "What did you say Miles?"  "You know mom, those things we caught at the ocean?".  "Oh, crab Miles.  You thought it smelled like crab."  "That's what I said mom, crap, it smells like crap".  I don't know if I love more the fact that I totally could assume he would smart off and say what I think he said, or that he so innocently mispronounced the word.  As Carter got dressed up for homecoming, Miles joined in the fun too.

It seems so timely to speak of love during the week we celebrate Saint Valentine.  What could the world accomplish if we all believed that love grows?  Plant the seed, and grow the love.  


Friday, January 2, 2015

A lot can happen in one year. . .

New Year's Day night the family gathered around the laptop and watched a slideshow covering 2014.  While viewing the photos we worked on some of our "top moments" of the year.  I wanted to blog about our "Top Ten", but we couldn't nail it down to just ten.  What a fortunate family we are!  Here's to the experiences, trips, and milestones in 2015!

FAMILY EXPERIENCES AND TRIPS:


  • Disneyland
  • Crabbing at the coast with friends
  • Daddy's 30th fishing trip
  • Cousin's Week at Lake Tahoe
  • Mommy's two trips to San Fran
  • Weekend at Trinity Lake with Friends
  • Skiing at Mt. Bachelor
  • Running the New York City Marathon
  • Mt. Shasta for Mom's Dirty 30 run and friend's wedding
  • Hiking into East Boulder


WHAT DID MILES LEARN HOW TO DO?


  • Ski
  • Ride a bike with training wheels
  • Ride a Horse
  • Turn a cartwheel and master the bars in acro class


WHAT DID CARTER LEARN HOW TO DO?


  • READ!
  • Water Ski
  • Ride a bike without training wheels
  • Hit a ball off without a tee








NEW, NEW, NEW!


  • Built a Chicken Coop
  • Built an AMAZING treehouse
  • Started Kindergarten
  • Principal of a school
  • Playing soccer as brothers on the same team
  • Playing tee-ball
  • Emissions Compliant - Roll Off Trucks (Daddy worked 60+ days straight on fires!)


MILESTONES


  • Mommy and Daddy left their twenties in the dust
  • Carter turned five and miles turned three



Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Will Ski for Cocoa!

I usually get a little weepy when it's time to take the tree down each year, but when your tree goes up before Thanksgiving the transition is a little easier.  The lights are still up outside, but the only trace of Christmas in the house is my display of cherished holiday cards from friends and family, a bit of a Christmas scented candle, and the five pounds around my middle.

The three weeks of school in December were really wonderful.  Our PTO decorated each classroom door, the hallways were full of holiday student artwork, there were wonderful student concerts, a schoolwide Ugly Sweater Day, an excellent entry in our hometown Christmas parade, and a full staff Christmas Concert.  The true magic of the season could be found within the walls of FJE
and the hearts of every Bulldog.

The weekend before break I entered into the local Ugly Sweater Run and won the women's six mile despite a nasty cold and an upset tummy resulting in not one but three vomit sessions.  The first day of break found us at Miles' Winter Dance recital and the Mt. Shasta Ski Park.  Miles learned how to ski in the morning, and stole the show in the evening.


He then went on for a repeat performance of "Marshmallow World" the next afternoon and followed that up with another day of skiing.  This was all in preparation for our short post-Christmas weekend at Mt. Bachelor.  The kid was an absolute natural.  Ski, hot cocoa, nachos, repeat.

The boys are very blessed and had a wonderful Christmas.  Letters arrived from Santa before Christmas and both boys were very happy to find out that they had made the "nice" list.  That status wavered closer to the 25th and next year I hope that Santa doesn't send out his confirmation letters quite so soon.  None the less, Carter's favorite gifts were Lego sets and Miles' favorite gifts were the Whoopie Cushions which Santa gave to both boys in their stockings.  Mom and Dad's favorite gifts were Carter's ability to put together Lego sets ALL BY HIMSELF, and when not one, but TWO Whoopie Cushions broke before Christmas dinner.

For the first time in my life, I was able to enjoy a simple Christmas Dinner.  All my years growing up, I don't really think I truly appreciated the efforts my parents went to in order to prepare a very nice and fancy Christmas dinner.  Delicious food, nice table setting, all cooked and cleaned up.  Last year I did it at my own home.  The whole shebang.  It was an enormous amount of work and was over within a few minutes.  The memories lost.  I bet NOONE in this family remembers what we ate.  This year, after a splendid Christmas Eve dinner, and weeks of feasting, I decided to work smarter and not harder.  It was homemade Mac and Cheese with (gasp) Velveeta.  In an effort to not completely fall off the wagon, they also had a side of Holiday grapes.  I did serve the Christmas dinner on real plates and the boys enjoyed their apple cider in real champagne glasses.  It was all blissfully delightful.

The next day we met up with my mom and sister in Sunriver and spent two days skiing at Mt. Bachelor.  I'm sure glad I prepped Miles with two days at Shasta before this trip.  Both boys did really, really, great.  Carter and I closed the lifts down one day and I'm pretty sure that Miles finished off the hot cocoa machine the next.  We all felt very blessed that Carter and Miles were able to ski with their grandma.  Both boys (as well as Bradley and I) think their Nene is pretty darn cool.  Even if they do love to sing to her the song about Grandma getting run over by a reindeer.

Looking back over this last month, maybe it is a little sad the tree is down and another Christmas is over.  Here's to hoping for another Christmas filled with Whoopie Cushions and Velveeta!

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Fake Potatoes and Ugly Sweaters

Thanksgiving went off without a hitch.  The 10th annual Scott Valley Schools' Turkey Trot was a huge success and we had more participants than ever.  This year Carter and Bradley ran/walked the three mile together and Miles joined in with Wyatt and Finn.  Both boys took a nice pre-Thanksgiving dinner nap as a result  In an effort to work "smarter not harder" I contributed to the annual Isbell Thanksgiving with some "instant" mashed potatoes.  I doctored them up with Organic Chicken Broth and a lot of butter.  Nobody even noticed and I saved myself a lot of time and potato peelings.





It's now December 7th and the holiday season is off with a bang.  Our annual tree hunting this year actually yielded a bit of snow and sledding.  This year the boys could have cared less about the tree and were intent to go all-out on their sled runs.


We were supposed to have a full-family holiday photo shoot but I had the stomach flu and Vanessa ended up with Pneumonia.  The boys and my mom had a nice time and the photographer got some great shots.  Our old girl Maggie even managed to sneak in for a few photo ops.


The tree is up, house is decorated, and the boys mailed off their letters to Santa.  Carter wasn't too sure of my new method of letter this year.  I made them ask Santa for something to wear and something they needed.  As both of these categories do not consist of toys, it came as a bit of a shock to the boys.  However, Carter recovered quickly when he realized that he both needed and could wear a new pair of ski pants.


This weekend I hosted my staff for our 1st annual Ugly Sweater Party and it was a huge hit.  I can't wait for next year.  As we move forward with the holiday season, I hope to get less overwhelmed with the lists and must-dos and take time to enjoy each and every day.  The magic of the season is upon us, I've already weathered the stomach flu, so let's just hope no one argues with instant potatoes at Christmas Eve.



Sunday, November 16, 2014

Concrete Jungles Where Dreams are Made

Following the end of soccer season and a rousing Halloween Parade, I left school on a Friday afternoon and raced to the airport.

After a red-eye into Newark, I departed the plane with a rolling suitcase and a dead iPhone.  One to use my resources, I had indeed packed my iPad.  Looking ever like the tourist, I grabbed my tablet, asked Siri a few questions, and rolled along with my suitcase onto a train and then the Subway.  As it was only 6am the morning after Halloween, I was able to get a few pre-race warm-ups in whislt hurdling over drunks in full-costumes who spent the early morning in Subway tunnels.  Thankful for my tablet, I was able to pop up out of the Subway, and land right in front of St. Patrick's Cathedral.  The iPad guided me to Rockefeller Plaza where I took out the sign my afterschool program made for me, and walked up proud and center onto the Today Show.  Those that know me well, know how much I wanted to be the next Today Show cohost in my youth.  However, that's many years and a stuttering impairment behind me.  As I held my sign in the rain and asked skeptical tourists to take my photo with my tablet, I'm sure I also blew the producers away with my red-eye hairstyle and smudged makeup.  I'm still trying to figure out why I haven't been called back to sub for the hosts.  Luckily, I did make it onto the show and several folks back home were able to see.

While experiencing the Today Show I made friends with a runner, her sister, and nephew.  In retrospect, it wasn't a good idea, but I did accept their offer for a ride to race expo.  The expo was unbelievable and I was able to get an autographed copy of Kathrine Switzer's book.  Google her.  Amazing.  Still hauling my rolling suitcase and using my tablet, I made it to the Upper West Side to my loaned apartment.  Incredible.  Out of a movie.  Perfect.  I spent a few hours sleeping and organizing my race items for the next morning.  I met up with Vanessa, her friend Jerzy, Niki, and Kelli for dinner at a nice Italian place.  Before retiring to bed, the Nash girls and I did make an attempt to get to the roof of the building.  Our efforts failed, but it was then I realized the howling winds.  .  .

I awoke at 4am the next morning and dressed in as many layers as I could.  I hailed a cab and headed to the New York Public Library where I hopped on a bus to Staten Island.  After the bus ride I was herded into my corral.  Each corral was roughly the size of our county fairgrounds.  Inside of each corral was hot coffee, semi-trucks of bagels, and lots of porta-potties.  This was my new home for almost four hours.  Thank God I dug through Bradley's hunting supplies and was able to gather up some hand and foot warmers.  I have NEVER been so cold and miserable as I was waiting.

Soon it was time to bundle up the clothes that we needed at the finish line and put them into our bags.  At this point we entered our running chutes and waited another hour.  Before the start we walked up to the bridge and awaited the guns.  Running across the Verranzano Narrows we faced 20+ mph headwinds and an amazing view.  I won't bore you with every twist and turn of the course but know the energy was palpable.  There wasn't a spot past mile two that the crowds were not three-ten people deep.  I was lucky enough to spot my sister and Jerzy twice along the course.  It was hard and I felt great.  I pulled a rookie move and bought a newer (smaller) Garmin at the Expo.  It worked great, but I couldn't see my overall time.  I knew I was close to my BQ goal of 3:35, but I didn't know how far back I had started.  If I wouldn't have stopped to use the potty, I think I would have made it.  From mile 18 on, my legs killed me.  I honestly don't remember the last two miles.  As soon as I crossed Bradley called and I remember asking my time, because I honestly didn't know.  Crushed that it was 1 min 23 seconds too slow for a BQ, but completely overwhelmed by emotion.  It sounds simple, but it was incredible.  The entire experience.

After I finished, it took me two hours to make it back to the apartment.  One hour was spent walking through the finish chute to get my bag.   I couldn't get a cab, so I had to ride in a pedi-cab back to the apartment.  Thankfully, my sister ordered me some hot soup, which followed by a hot shower made for a nice nap.  Dinner and drinks with Ness, Jerzy, and the girls made for a delightful evening.  We made it to a bar that happened to be directly across the street from my cousins' apartment. More fun was had with them, but I dont' recall a lot after that point.  All I know is that my legs stopped hurting.

The next morning I packed up my things into my rolling suitcase and hailed a cab to the Battery.  Although I'd seen it before, my breath was still taken away by the Statue of Liberty.  From there I walked a few blocks up towards the Freedom Tower and the 9/11 memorials.  The memorials were incredibly moving.  At this point it was time to begin the journey home.  All I can say is that I want to do it all over again.  It was simply AMAZING.

The week ended with parent/teacher conferences.  Carter is doing an amazing job academically in school and is a friend to all.  Bradley and I were proud parents.  We only get this life once.  Grab it, enjoy experiences, run away with opportunities.  Concrete Jungles to mountain landscapes.  We are so blessed in this life of ours.  All of us.